in the presence of a person, or people, in a grumpy mood, it can feel like a
dark cloud approaching to dim our radiance and block our positive way of
seeing the world. We can remind ourselves that clouds pass, while the sun
and stars continue to shine above. Then it's easier to think of these
'grumps' affectionately, knowing that they only have the power to affect our
mood if we allow it. With the power of change firmly in our hands, we can
choose how to respond to a grumpy person, or a grumbling group of people,
with confidence and understanding. Like a lighthouse, we can continue to
shine through the darkness, offering our light to help others find their way
back to their own. We can send them a silent prayer of peace or a
sympathetic smile. We may sense that reaching out to offer a comforting
touch or hug can ease their frustrations and cause the clouds to dissipate.
If they need understanding, we can sympathize without reinforcing the
negativity they may be experiencing by directing their attention someplace
more positive. Helping them find the humor in their situation might be
appropriate and is a great way to lift spirits, or a logical approach may
help them see all the good in the situation, in their lives and in the
world. We might find that someone we encounter often seems to be in a
perpetual state of gloom. Our tendency in such cases may be to try to avoid
them, but instead we can make the choice to offer support that comes from
the heart. We may be inspired to ask if they would like some help or to
offer suggestions that have helped us in the past. We can include thoughts
of their health and happiness in our times of prayer and meditation. When we
lend our energy to uplift another in any way, we improve our own lives while
making the world a better place for all of us.









